Super Power (76/100)

Day 76.  This is the challenge I also sent to my co-creator:  You are your own superhero and you have your own super power.  Take time today to be your own Super Woman.  You have the power to change a life.  What is your super power?  Take hold of your own inner vigilante. 

In a single act we can change a life.  In a single moment we can help someone have a worse or a better day.  I like to help out when I can to make someone have a little bit of an easier day.  For example, I came home the other day and there were dirty dishes out from when my roommate had her father over for for appetizers before their dinner out at a local restaurant.  Now, I knew she would clean up when she got home, but I also knew she was going to get home late.  I took it upon myself to clean up for her, so that it was one less thing she had to worry about before going to bed that night.  This act seems insignificant, but to my dear friend it meant something. 

My super power - attention to the details & noticing the small things of life.  I send out thank you cards & birthday cards and I remember anniversaries.  I know what flowers my roommate likes and the type of flour she prefers for baking.  I ask how friend's interview go and know some of the the patrons (from the theater where I work) just by hearing their voice on the phone.   

As for being a vigilante, I actually need to take on more of role.  I live in a city stricken with many homeless people and I try to give money when I can - but honestly, that is not enough.  Also, I live in a city where policies are made and people have nonprofits that are fighting for a just system.  I need to get more involved.   

Haiku (73/100)

Day 73 - ok actually, Day 73 was on April 27th, but I liked the challenge so much that I am going to post it and immediately post another entry for today's challenge.

haikus are easy; but sometimes they don't make sense; refridgerator. - unknown

Today unleash your inner poet and write some haikus about the challenge.  Ok here it goes:

Breathe, Blink, Write, Think, Look.
I am made for a purpose.
Believe, Create more

Take time to listen.
Your thoughts talk more that you think.
Each one powerful.

Limits exist here.
Body and mind are stronger.
So, I can do this. 

Take Action (70 & 71/100)

Day 70  & 71...alright, time to get real. 

How am I coming along in my goals for this 100 Day Challenge?

Day 70's  focus was: People treat you how you let them.  This day was a bit hard.  I needed to look at the relationships I have with people and see if there were somethings I needed to change.  It's hard to realize that if someone is continuing to treat you crappy that that is in part because you let them.  My personal goal today was to bring to light one of these realationships and talk with the person about some actions that have happened recently.  It is hard for me to talk through tough situations.  As I continue to grow up, I am coming more to terms with the fact that me wanting things to change is a change for the better.  Not only bettering myself and how I am treated but also connecting on a deeper level with the person. 

Day 71's focus is to really buckle down and see if I am staying true to the things I want to focus on during these 100 days.  What have I done specifically that has gotten me closer to achieving my goal by May 24th (my 100th day!)  I would say I am definitely more attentive to how others affect me.  I am careful how I perceive criticism and negetivity.  More importantly, as I stated in the beginning of this challenge - if I am unhappy in a situation in my life, I am going to take an action to change it.  I have been more proactive in  changing things that bring me down and taking charge in doing my part to change/fix it rather than just wish it would get better.   

Also remember...RESPECT

Dream Destination (62/100)

Day 62 - Pick a dream destination.  Where would you go?  Why did you pick this place - has it had to do with something you have learned over these past 62 days or was it a place you have always wanted to travel?  What sights would you see? (This is what I sent to my co-creator this morning to think about today, so I must think it about it too)

Location: Tahiti

Reason: Today was a beautiful day and I got a rush being outside in the sun.  I am inspired to go to a tropical island.  I have never been to a tropical island (other than Hawaii) and Tahiti seems like a perfect place to pick. 

Appeal: My room would be in a cabana in the water.  Yes, please!  This place would be a perfect place to live care-free.  It has such beautiful blue water and an opportunity to see such stunning sea creatures.  Sign me up!  I could see myself looking really good here. 

Noteworthy & Valued (58,59,60/100)



Picture found through another blog - Brands Are Opinions - check it out here

 Day 58, 59 & 60...throughout this challenge if I have skipped blogging on a particular day, then I move on and blog the next day I can.  I have enjoyed the messages from these past 3 days, so I wanted to include them.

Day 58 - be noteworthy.  be bold. be beautiful. be you.

I found such a cool blog post when I searched for "be noteworthy" - check out this blog "Brands are Opinions"...I really resonate with the core question presented in this post.  The author talks about when looking for a job or meaning to your life - instead of asking, "What do you want to do?" ask, "Who do you want to be?"

Often when looking to my future, it's easy for me to focus on material gain.  Is this going to help me get more money?  Will I be able to have this or that? Do this or that?  A wake up call comes every so often and it hits me... WHO AM I?!?!  What type of life am I leading?  Am I happy with the way things are?  What do I need to change?

Well, I am someone who is noteworthy.  I am abitious (need to channel this side of me more).  I am someone worth knowing. 

Day 59 - it is not what happes to you that defines you - it's how you react to you.  be calm & zen today --- this came to me from my beautiful co-creator, she had such good intentions for me today.  I did my best to be as calm & zen-like as I could muster.  But you know what?  Today was the day a small ray of light came out of work today.  Is there potential for me to apply for a new position?  I received quite an encouraging word from one of my managers.  I was told to not be afraid of change or of future challenges.  I would say that is what this 100 Day Reality Challenge is for!!!  I need to just go for it!!


Day 60 - we all have tests.  it is up to us to make them our testimonies
Alright, I had no really rough patches today to pull through.  Work was pretty good and I adore my co-workers...and who doesn't love some good music to get the day going and to close out the day???  Jazz Morning Saturdays is my highlight.  Seriously, everyone everywhere should start their Saturday with Jazz music. 

Thankfully, my day was not one of "tests," but I am thankful to say that the tests I have had in my life have shaped me into the woman I am.  I continue to grow & learn from each new day.

Admiration (57/100)

Day 57 - To Thine Own Self Be True.  I challenged my beautiful co-creator to think about today what you admire most about yourself.  Brag a little and see your greatness. 

I am willing to also meditate on this same topic. 

What do I admire most about myself?

• I am a good friend (always room for improvement though)
• I listen to others
• I have a great relationship with my parents
• I call my grandma to see how she's doing
• I am kind, thoughtful & considerate
• When I give a hug, I am aiming to truely connect with a person
• I am good natured
• When I love, it's with my whole heart
• I am a big fan of God
• I laugh at my friends' jokes
• I am always willing to be out on the dance floor
• I send out birthday cards to family &; friends
• I made personalized Valentine's this year for my co-workers
• I excelled in school - I am proud to have graduated top 10 in my highschool class and Cum Laude from college
• I give out sincere compliments
• I am a hard worker and represent my place of employment well
• I am loyal
• I encourage myself to dream big
• This year, I took a risk and opened my own business & I am so happy that I did
• I said I would help a dear friend & take this 100 Day Reality Challenge with her

Well, those are some things that initially come to mind... at the end of this 100 day challenge, I know I will be able to add some more things to this list. 

Take Charge of today!  I was at work yesterday and as I was talking with some co-workers, I offered to lend a hand on a small project that needed to get done in the office.  One friend at work said, "This looks like a job for..." and I chimed in, "Super Stacey!"  It got a few laughs and was fun to say.  Another friend said that I should have that on my mirror, "This looks like a day for Super Stacey!"  He was kidding, but as I thought about it more...why not?! 

Today is the perfect day to say...

This looks like a day for Super Stacey!

 

How Big Is Your God? (55/100)

Clearly it has been too long since my last post...what have I been doing these last 28 days?!?

Day 55.  In honor of yesterday being Easter, I wanted to spend parts of today giving glory to God.  In reading, In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day, I was particularly drawn to one of the questions the author, Mark Batterson, poses;

"How big is your God?"  

"The more we grow, the bigger God should get.  And the bigger God gets, the smaller our lions (fears) become.  The reality is that nothing is too big for God."  (pg 39)

Many times I get sucked into the dilemas of my day & my life and get bogged down.  I feel shelfish asking God to come quickly to my aid when my troubles are minor in comparisson to other areas of the world.  And yet, He is there for me even in my minor troubles.  He does care about all the details in my life even if they seem ridiculous in comparisson to others who are dealing with more severe hard times... He cares because my troubles are just that...mine.  He wants to comfort me. 

I, along with many others, never want to appear demanding or even needy, or rely too heavily on the consolation of God.  But God puts desires and needs in my heart and He longs for me to ask for His help.  We can work to help each other.  Friends look out for each other and neighbors should help neighbors.  

I like to remind myself that at times when I may be upset with certain people that make up a body within the Church, or upset at ideals that are in questions... I need to remember that at the heart of the matter & what is truly important is that I am not upset with God.  For He is perfect..  He is my ultimate reason.